Stripping for fun and influence

Tuesday 30 March 2010, 12.00pm HKT

This one’s for the ladies. Enjoy.

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How his brain works

Don’t overlook the “tease” in striptease. Guys enjoy being sexually teased. A lot of women don’t enjoy sexual teasing, and thus “don’t get it.”  Trust me on this, sexual teasing is a very good thing for a guy – especially if you follow up by fully satisfying him.

You want to almost show something, then show it and quickly cover it, and then  repeat before permanently removing each item of clothing. You also want to give limited looks at a newly uncovered body part at first, working  up to a better and better view.

Another part of the tease is that he doesn’t get to touch you. You can touch him, but he can’t touch you.

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The setup

Doing the striptease some place other than the  bedroom can give an added thrill — if you can manage it. You want very  good lighting so he can fully appreciate the body he so enjoys (forget about how you feel about your own body – he thinks your naked body is hot).

An overhead light plus one or two side light sources is best. Place a  chair for him in a way you can easily move all the way around him. Put a second chair (or better a stool) nearby — this is for your own use.

You don’t want him naked; you want him dressed so that you can  easily access his more sexual parts. Nothing but a pair of boxers would  be a good choice. Some music is a good idea — moving to a strong beat  may help you feel more at ease, and silence other than his heavy breathing may be hard to deal with.

When it’s time, give him the  rules (see below) and send him off to get undressed per your directions, then return and sit in the chair. When you send him away, be dressed normally, giving no hint of what’s to come. Give him more than  enough time to get to his spot. Then while still in your regular clothes, go into the room and turn on the music and the lights. Make a fuss  about getting the lights just right – you’re building anticipation  here. Give him a quick kiss and tell him the show will start shortly.  Then go to another room and get dressed (below).

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The Rules

He must stay in the chair, with his hands at his sides unless  directed to do otherwise by you. He can turn his head, but his back must stay against the back of the chair. He is not allowed to touch you unless you tell him to, and he is not allowed to talk. Modify these as you see fit, based on what you know about him and yourself. For example, you might want to tie his hands at his sides, or allow him to whistle or cheer.

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What to wear

Again, think tease. You want layers, and you want  to give hints with fabric that is very clingy, sheer or has openings. Black and red are good colours, as is pure white. Mix and match dark outer garments and white undies, for example.

For outer clothes, a  skirt is a must. Short works, but longer with a zipper or buttons give you more to work with. The top also works well if it has buttons or a zipper.

Bra: See-through or lace on the top part is fine, but the  nipples should be concealed so you can tease him. Front hook is easier to work with and gives some good tease opportunities.

Panties: You do  not want a thong. Make him wait for a clear look at your rear. Panties with a see-through back (lace or mesh) are good. Stockings (but not pantyhose) are great because of the way you can move your legs and  expose your rear and crotch when you remove them.

Shoes with a good deal of heal are a big plus.

Jewellery can be a big help — anything that moves and catches the light is nice. Try a necklace that  disappears down your top, a body chain around your waist, and/or an ankle bracelet. Jewellery is the only thing you should still have on when you’re done stripping.

Finally, don’t forget some perfume — something  bold — and more than a hint!

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Doing it

The self-conscious factor: Try to forget about how silly you feel. He is not thinking this. He is thinking how hot you  are, and how great it is that you are doing this for him. If dancing makes you feel silly, then don’t — you can undress and move around in a way that will drive him wild without dancing.

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Start up close

Enter the room, and circle the chair slowly, giving him a good look at you. As you pass behind him lean over and  whisper in his ear, telling him you are going to strip for him, or  something else to get him going. Stop in front of him, and bend over so  he can peek down your shirt. Straddle one of his legs and lower yourself onto it, then briefly rub your crotch against his leg.

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The moves

Move continually, mostly in front of him, but occasionally going behind him. Use the empty chair/stool — put a leg up on it. Sit on it and slowly part your legs. Bend over and put your hands on it. Stand behind it and spread your legs. Be creative. As you move, give him a view of you from all sides: of you standing, bending and so on. Move up close from time to time; give him a good look or touch him. In particular, make contact between parts of his body and your breasts,  rear and crotch. Touch his penis occasionally through whatever he is wearing — but only in a limited way and for a short period of time.

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Getting naked

This should take a good while. Don’t just remove something — play  with it. One button at a time, half an inch at a time. Slide clothing aside for a moment to give a quick peek. Unfasten (or partly unfasten) an item, then move around before you finish taking it off. Understand that he likes seeing your hands on the parts of you that he wants to touch, so stroking, squeezing and rubbing your breasts and crotch is a good idea. Do this through clothing, under clothing, and unclothed. You can accentuate these things by making a face that says “that feels  good.”

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Remember, tease, tease, tease

Fully unbutton your shirt, then turn your back on him before you remove it. Turn back to him, but with the shirt held over your bra. Turn and bend over, slip your panties down to show your rear, then pull them back up before you face him again. When your panties finally come off, keep your legs together at first, denying him what he is now crazy to see.

When your breasts are naked, go and shake  them in his face — just out of reach. Kneel and place his leg between your breasts. Place your foot up on his chair between his legs, and  gently rub him with your foot. When you are down to just panties give  his leg a good ride, or take his hand and rub the back side of it against your crotch. Be aware that he can see your Holy of Holies from the back  side if you bend over — make use of this. You don’t have to stay on your feet — you can kneel, crawl, lay on the floor, and even roll around a bit.

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The talk

You can add to his pleasure by what you say. Tell or ask him about your body — tweak your nipples to make them erect and say, “Do you  like it when my nipples are hard?” Slip your hand in your panties and report to him that you are getting wet. Ask him which breasts he wants to see uncovered first, or if he is ready for some item of clothing to come off. Don’t feel compelled to follow what he says.

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The Grand Finale

If you are up for it, finish your performance by letting him watch you enjoy a self-induced orgasm. You can use his body or do it  yourself. Drive him over the top by putting a chair in front of him, sit down, your feet on his knees, spread wide, and masturbate. Bonus point for self-penetration. If masturbating to orgasm is not something  you want to do, you can play ‘at it’ a bit and then get him to help you  finish up.

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Finishing him off

How you follow up is up to you and what you think he will like. He will be extremely aroused when you get done, so don’t expect him to last long — even if he usually does. Give him an orgasm there in the chair, or on the floor, or take him to  bed.

(Email from R.J.U., 30 March 2010)

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Please don’t even think about why I get emails like this!

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